Comments on: And so the story begins http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/and-so-the-story-begins/ Thoughts and struggles of an in-closet cross-dresser Mon, 03 Aug 2009 03:46:47 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: One and a half week without Lenore « When hope is lost nothing remains http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/and-so-the-story-begins/#comment-179 One and a half week without Lenore « When hope is lost nothing remains Mon, 08 Sep 2008 17:52:37 +0000 http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/?p=4#comment-179 [...] But she needed support to get over it. So she went to Soldier. They fell in love again. (full story here ). And now she’s joined his [...] [...] But she needed support to get over it. So she went to Soldier. They fell in love again. (full story here ). And now she’s joined his [...]

]]> By: Trance-dance 8: A trip through emotions « When hope is lost nothing remains http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/and-so-the-story-begins/#comment-129 Trance-dance 8: A trip through emotions « When hope is lost nothing remains Wed, 30 Jul 2008 14:58:07 +0000 http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/?p=4#comment-129 [...] Inferiority (ben ik te min). When we are hurt by someone we love, we might start thinking where we ourselves went wrong. We might even feel inferior. Why would we have the right over others. During this part I tried to avoid other people in the group during the dance. At this stage I started with this blog. Compare with this entry [...] [...] Inferiority (ben ik te min). When we are hurt by someone we love, we might start thinking where we ourselves went wrong. We might even feel inferior. Why would we have the right over others. During this part I tried to avoid other people in the group during the dance. At this stage I started with this blog. Compare with this entry [...]

]]> By: Flip http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/and-so-the-story-begins/#comment-4 Flip Mon, 26 May 2008 09:51:14 +0000 http://whenhopeislostnothingremains.wordpress.com/?p=4#comment-4 Life can be a bitch. Love can be both exhilarating and horrifying. It has to be, otherwise it wouldn’t be so grand. There is always a downside, a dark side. You cannot quit love. It is in you, part of you. It has to wear off to get rid of it. It can turn into hate. It can be evil. That’s were the devil comes in. I think you are doing very well. Trying to stop the devil. Let it wither away. It is painful and takes time but it will heal. Don’t give in, you will be rewarded with a new chance to pick up your life were you left it years ago. This is the only way out. All other roads are ways to disaster. Let it go, take your time, don’t rush it. Try to stay strong in this process. It is not forever as many people who walked this road before you can testify. At the horizon the sun is shining again but it is still a long way. Life can be a bitch. Love can be both exhilarating and horrifying. It has to be, otherwise it wouldn’t be so grand. There is always a downside, a dark side.
You cannot quit love. It is in you, part of you. It has to wear off to get rid of it. It can turn into hate. It can be evil.
That’s were the devil comes in.
I think you are doing very well. Trying to stop the devil. Let it wither away. It is painful and takes time but it will heal. Don’t give in, you will be rewarded with a new chance to pick up your life were you left it years ago.

This is the only way out. All other roads are ways to disaster.

Let it go, take your time, don’t rush it. Try to stay strong in this process. It is not forever as many people who walked this road before you can testify.

At the horizon the sun is shining again but it is still a long way.

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